String Love Guitar Lessons

This is the story of Spencer Gottlieb. Spencer got in touch with me to take guitar lessons 10 weeks ago. He found my website and emailed me the following inquiry:

“Hey, I am thinking about starting to learn how to play the guitar. It’s been something I’ve wanted to do for a while now. I write the lyrics and melodies to country songs (my favorite genre) but I obviously can’t write the music to accompany it. I just want to be able to play the country music that I love listening to. I’m 22 and have never played before so you’d literally be starting from scratch. I wanted to see what I should expect — how much it costs, what I would need to buy, how much progress is typical, how much I would need to practice, etc. Thanks!”

I received his email and smiled–his questions covered all the bases that new guitar students almost always ask.

• How much does it cost to take lessons?
• What do I need to buy to play guitar?
• How much progress will I make?
• How much do I need to practice?

I get these questions all the time from prospective students. Here are my answers, which I emailed in response to the message I received from Spencer:

“Hey Spencer,

I hope you go for it with learning to play the guitar–it is such an amazing (and fun!) thing to be able to do.

So, quick answers to your questions:

1. How much it costs–I have more details on my site here, but the basic answer is I charge $60 for hour-long lessons, or you can buy lessons in packs of 4 and the price goes down to $50 per lesson. You can also do half-hour lessons for $30, though I recommend full-hour lessons for new adult students. Price is always one of the first questions people ask, but I do want to say–cheaper lessons with a teacher you don’t vibe with or who doesn’t understand how to help students learn might cost you more in the long run both in terms of wasted money and the frustration of having to undo bad habits. Just something to keep in mind as you look around for the right teacher for you.

 

2. What you’d need to buy–well, you’ll need a guitar for sure. Sounds like you’ll want an acoustic steel string guitar to be able to play country music that you love. You’ll also want a guitar tuner of some kind. And if you end up studying with me, then I always encourage my students to get a metronome to help them really develop solid rhythm. Other than that, the most you’ll absolutely need to buy would be a new set of strings every now and then.

 

3. How much progress is typical? Hmm…very tough to say, as it depends completely on how hard and how much you’re practicing. But I will say that in about three months, I regularly see my complete beginner students able to switch chords and strum through relatively simple (but still nice-sounding) songs. If you practice super hard, that timeframe could shrink. And if you’re really casual, it might take a little bit longer. But three months to get to where you’re comfortable switching chords and strumming through the changes is pretty typical.

 

4. How much you’d need to practice…another tough question, as it totally depends. But 30 minutes a day is a good target. If you could do 30 minutes a day 5 or 6 days a week, you’ll be able to move out of total beginnerdom and into a pretty solid playing level in that three-month period I just mentioned.

 
I hope those answers help you out. Just let me know if I can answer any other questions for you–I’m here to help.”

The Three Fundamental Areas of Beginning Guitar Playing

So that was our introduction. Spencer was a total beginner with zero guitar experience. He didn’t even own a guitar when he contacted me.

After I shot him back my response, he went out and picked up a great beginning guitar as well as a metronome. We scheduled our first lesson and away we went.

When you’re beginning on the guitar, there are three specific areas you need to focus on in order to be able to strum and play songs:

1. Proper Finger Technique for the Fretting Hand
2. Forming and Changing Chords
3. Strumming

When Spencer walked in my door, I began teaching him the fundamentals starting with #1: Finger Technique. In order to help him develop the best possible finger technique, I showed him the chromatic scale exercise and taught him how to use a metronome to guide his practice. I use many of the ideas and approaches taught in the fantastic Principles for Correct Practice for the Guitar. You should definitely get the Principles book and read it backwards and forwards if you’re serious about playing guitar well.

In that same lesson, we also started working on some of the best beginning guitar chords. I taught Spencer E major, A minor and a modified F major chord where you simply slide E major up one fret for each finger.

From there, I showed him the most introductory perspective on guitar strumming.

These three areas comprise the fundamentals of beginning guitar. If you know how to move your fingers on the guitar, how to make basic chords and (most importantly) change between them and how to strum, then you’ll be able to play simple songs in no time.

But how long does it actually take to learn to play guitar in the real world?

10 Weeks to Singing and Playing Songs on the Guitar

In Spencer’s case: 10 weeks.

He went from total beginner to strumming, playing and singing along with his playing in 10 short weeks.

Now, I want to emphasize something here: 10 weeks is pretty unusual. That’s why I’m writing about this here. I have students who take 20 weeks to be able to play through simple chord changes, and I’ve had students take many months before they could really sing along with themselves as they play.

So 10 weeks is pretty incredible.

How did Spencer get from being a total beginner to being able to play and sing a song (Troubadour by George Strait if you’re following along at home) in 10 weeks?

Spencer Gottlieb’s Strategy for Crazy-Fast Guitar Progress

After talking with Spencer a bit and teasing out the strategy he followed these past 10 weeks, here is what he did in a nutshell:

1. Find a Great Guitar Teacher
2. Take One Lesson a Week
3. Practice 30 Minutes a Day
4. Use a Metronome Religiously
5. Keep Detailed Notes of Practice Sessions

Let’s look at each of these steps in a little detail:

Find a Great Guitar Teacher

Now, I’m humble and don’t generally toot my own horn. However, I am extremely committed to the art and science of playing and teaching the guitar. And when someone comes to me to learn how to play guitar, I am committed to helping them achieve their guitar playing dreams.

Spencer hunted around the web a bit before locating String Love Guitar. When he found me, he read the information on my site, wrote in with good questions and listened to my answers. He then made his decision: he committed to learning to play the guitar by buying a guitar and signing up for a package of lessons right out of the gate.

A great teacher can make a huge difference in your dreams of playing the guitar. At the very least, a great teacher will cut the time it takes for you to learn to make music on the guitar. In the process, a great guitar teacher will ensure that you develop excellent playing habits so you don’t have to go through periods of intense frustration undoing accumulated ineffective habits.

You may not need a teacher to learn to play the guitar, but if you’re truly serious about making rapid progress, a teacher is invaluable.

Take One Lesson a Week

Here’s another key component of Spencer’s strategy for rapid guitar progress: he started off by taking a regular weekly lesson. We met Monday afternoons, and every Monday without fail he walked in my door and was ready for more to work on. Spencer is a fantastic student–he wants to learn, he applies everything I show him and he always comes in the following week with plenty of questions and lots of progress to show for his efforts.

I have noticed this time and again with the students I teach: the bi-weekly or less frequent students simply don’t progress as fast. If you want to get better in a hurry, then the positive pressure of your weekly lesson will keep you focused and clear about what you need to do to move forward.

Consistency is key.

Practice 30 Minutes a Day

Speaking of consistency, nothing matters more than daily practice if you want to get better on the guitar.

In Spencer’s case, he adopted a simple but powerful practice strategy: 30 minutes a day, every day.

30 minutes isn’t much. But it adds up.

Do you have 30 minutes in your day that you could devote to learning to play the guitar? I bet you do. And if you’re motivated, you can make it happen.

Here’s the thing, though: Spencer kept at it. He practiced day in, day out for 10 weeks. Those daily 30-minute chunks added up. After 10 weeks, all that practicing amounted to over 30 hours of time spent learning to play the guitar.

It’s far better to practice 30 minutes a day every day than to practice two hours a day a couple times a week.

Especially at the beginning, consistency is key. Get your fingers on the guitar every day, and move them in the right way so that you develop good finger habits, relaxed hands and incredibly powerful guitar technique.

Use a Metronome Religiously

This one is huge. And it’s another major thing that stands out to me between the students who make rapid progress and those who drift and end up taking much longer to reach their guitar goals.

A metronome is your biggest ally in learning to play the guitar well. By practicing with a metronome, you will develop incredibly solid rhythm. You will be able to see your progress extremely clearly. And you will have a very clear structure within which to move forward on the guitar. Most importantly, you will be forced to focus more intensely on everything you’re doing within your practicing.

The Principles of Correct Practice for the Guitar contains a powerful approach to using a metronome to chart and push guitar progress forward called the Basic Practice Approach.

I adapt the BPA to all of my students, and the combination of personal attention and this powerful practice framework *always* creates results. IF, that is, the student actually uses the metronome in their practice.

In Spencer’s case, he fully embraced the metronome even though it’s easier not to turn the clicking monster on.

When a student walks in for their lesson, I can virtually always tell within minutes whether they actually used the metronome in their practice since our last lesson.

The students who use the metronome regularly make vastly more progress in shorter amounts of time than the students who don’t use the metronome.

Keep Detailed Notes of Practice Sessions

Spencer is currently a teacher. He has to keep track of his students, and his hands-on educational experience as a teacher has helped him develop extremely good habits when it comes to learning.

More than any student I’ve ever worked with, Spencer has kept meticulous practice notes. Every week when he comes in, he has his daily practice charted with what he did, the metronome speeds he worked at and any additional things he wants to keep track of.

When I asked him how he managed to make so much progress so quickly, taking great practice notes definitely stood out to him as one of the most important things he did.

I’ve learned the hard way that most students aren’t interested in taking the time to write down what they did and how fast they did it at the end of their practice sessions. Even though I know that this is one of the most important things any guitarist can do to make major progress in a hurry, it’s very hard to get people to actually keep track of what they’re doing.

If you take good notes and keep track of your progress, you’re going to receive several major benefits:


1. First off, you will always know exactly what you need to work on in any given practice session. You’ll save time by knowing what to do, and you’ll get to spend more time getting better on the guitar as a result of just a little note-taking.

 

2. Second, you will be able to see your progress definitively, clearly. So much of learning to play the guitar comes down to psychology. Many would-be guitarists sabotage their progress by denying it. If you’re taking notes, you can’t possibly deny how you’ve learned new things and increased your speed, smoothness and capabilities. The combination of a great practice method, working with a metronome, having a great teacher who helps you know exactly what to work on plus taking notes of your practice sessions guarantees that you will progress. And that progress will be well documented.

What Kind of Student Do You Want to Be?

So that’s how Spencer Gottlieb went from total beginner to being able to play and sing one of his favorite country songs in 10 weeks. He’s the best kind of guitar student that a guitar teacher could ever hope for. He’s a super nice guy, conscientious, dedicated to the guitar and extremely funny. When I heard him play Troubadour this past Monday, I was genuinely blown away. If he keeps doing what he’s been doing, he’s going to go far in his guitar playing for sure.

If you want to play the guitar, and if you’re ready to follow the simple roadmap Spencer followed, then you can absolutely be playing fantastically fun music just 10 weeks from today.

If you don’t actually put in the right effort and follow the roadmap exactly, though, it’s possible that you’ll either take longer to get to where you want to be on the guitar or you might just quit in frustration altogether.

I hope you can see that this stuff is simple. It’s easy. It’s totally doable. And most importantly, you can do this. You can learn to play the guitar in no time at all. Like Jim Rohn used to say when asked why people don’t follow through on the simple process of learning, growing and expanding: These things are easy to do, but they’re also easy not to do.

If you’re ready to become a guitar player and want to get there in 10 weeks, then let’s work together. I teach Skype guitar lessons via webcam, and I also teach in-person guitar lessons in Nashville, Tennessee.

What if your guitar has the potential to generate and transmit beauty into the world?

What if beauty reminds those who have forgotten of that which is real and strong and true?

What if a song you play could bring someone back from the brink of suicide?

What if your guitar has the power to save you from illusion and bring you back to Right Now?

What if this was the last moment of your life?

And what if you decided to spend that precious, sacred moment playing the guitar?

What if you played as if your life depended on it?

What if, while you played your guitar, the choir of angels was listening?

What if everything you are as a human being was on display every time you played your guitar?

What if you stood for Love, Beauty and Truth?

What if your music distilled everything you are and carried it into the receptive ears of others?

What if the world was in crisis?

What if wars raged and cities burned and people starved while you played your guitar?

Would that affect how you play it?

What if you stopped hiding from life and instead took a stand for what you know matters most?

How would you play the guitar then?

Are you willing to die for your music?

Are you willing to die for the Truths you have discovered, no matter how much they may contradict the conventional wisdom of this day?

Are you willing to stand for Peace in a world of war?

Are you willing to give up distraction and focus on the important instead?

Are you willing to discover an Absolute relationship to Life?

Are you willing to remember how lucky you are that you have your fingers and your arms and your ears and your ability to play the guitar when so many are poor and maimed and sick and beleaguered?

How would you practice if you knew something real was at stake?

How would you play if you knew your music could heal and awaken?

How would you act if you knew your actions mattered?

Wake Up When You Touch Your Guitar.

I’ve been on both sides of the teacher/student divide–I’ve studied through private lessons with different teachers, and I am a private guitar teacher giving guitar lessons in Nashville and via Skype.

Over time, I’ve noticed some common characteristics that make for a great guitar student.

Whether or not you’re currently taking lessons with a teacher, these pointers will definitely help you make the most out of any time you spend learning to play the guitar.

1. Dream Big

We have one life to live. Each minute that passes is gone forever.

If you are going to the trouble of spending your precious time (not to mention money!) learning how to play the guitar, then dream a great dream and bring the energy of that mighty guitar aspiration into everything you do on the guitar.

You don’t have to want to become some rockstar or flashy shredder. But make sure that you’re really stretching with whatever it is that you want to be able to do on the guitar.

Don’t settle for the bare minimum. If you’re going to try to learn to play the guitar, then let’s run the full experiment–just how good are you capable of becoming? How many lives could you touch with your music?

If you’re fueled by passion, you’ll bring an intensity and urgency to your guitar lessons that will absolutely challenge your teacher to show up in the best possible way. If you put the power of life and death into your process of learning to play the guitar, you’ll learn more, you’ll learn faster and your teacher will have to show up with their A-game in order to satiate your explosive guitar intensity.

2. Bring Your Best Attitude

There is an inner game and an outer game to playing the guitar.

The outer game is all that stuff we’re always talking about–how to move your fingers, how to play chords, how to play in rhythm–you know, the whole “making music” thing.

Your inner game will completely determine how successful you are in the process of learning the outer game of guitar.

Your attitude will make all the difference between you quitting in frustration and you pushing through any and all hurdles to be able to generate unbelievably beautiful music on your guitar.

If you’re anything like me, then you’ll probably encounter all sorts of roadblocks, challenges and frustrations over the course of your quest to learn how to play the guitar.

If you adopt an indomitable can-do attitude, you can slice through even the thickest of roadblocks. You will make more progress faster and you’ll enjoy it a whole lot more.

A great attitude is fueled by great beliefs. Here are some of the key beliefs that will help you develop an incredibly positive attitude toward your guitar playing: “I can learn to play the guitar as well as I am willing to work for it.” “Even if I don’t see the progress, it’s always happening because I’m giving the guitar my all.” “Playing the guitar is fun, and it is totally worth whatever it takes to learn how to play it.”

If you aren’t at the point where you actually believe those things, then you’ve got some work to do.

There’s no reason you can’t play the guitar as well as you want as long as you’re willing to put in the focus and the effort over a period of time. Patience, Diligence and Doing the Right Thing will guide you in the right direction.

If your teacher is great, they’ll make sure you know what the Right Thing is. That leaves the Patience, Diligence and actually Doing It up to you.

3. Practice

Finally, we’re to the point that you probably expected would top this list of ways to be a great guitar student.

And, without practice, neither Big Dreams nor a Great Attitude will actually result in anything.

So, these three aspects to becoming a great guitar student work in tandem. You need all three firing at once in order to become someone who is a joy to teach (because you’re learning so much).

Practice. The first thing to do is just to keep showing up at your guitar with as much focus as you can muster.

Find the practice approach that plays to your strengths.

If you thrive on a rhythmic schedule, then set a practice time every day and make sure you’re there with your guitar.

If you thrive on variety, then make sure your guitar is readily available so you can grab it whenever the spirit moves you.

Stay clear about what you’re working on so you don’t have to waste any time whenever you sit down to practice.

And apply the method your teacher gives you (or that you’ve deciphered through your own journey on the guitar) so that you make the most out of every minute you spend practicing.

Great Guitar Students Bring Out the Best In Their Teachers

Ultimately, if you’re actually practicing, then your teacher will be very likely having a blast teaching you. You’ll be motivated, so they’ll be motivated.

And when you show up with a big dream, a positive attitude and a steady commitment to practicing, you WILL get better. You will love your adventure with your guitar.

And you’ll probably end up teaching your teacher a thing or two in the process.